Things about Relationships I wish someone told me about

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  1. Ethan emanuel minecrafter

    Ethan emanuel minecrafter

    Acum 4 ore


  2. Primsby


    Acum 9 ore

    I think red flags are an American thing or atleast something from that side of the pond as, as far as I am aware I've never come across it in my 30 years in the UK

  3. Luna Lights Sparkle

    Luna Lights Sparkle

    Acum 9 ore

    yeah but the thing is well for me there my friend and I need to help cuz if I don't I'll lose them and then at the end I'll be crying or maybe they will tell other people and say I'm heartless

  4. Nicko Artorias

    Nicko Artorias

    Acum 12 ore

    If someone say they about to hurt themself, just say "Do it, i would like to pee on your grave"

  5. Daimara Villafaña

    Daimara Villafaña

    Acum 12 ore

    Special shout out to my incredibly toxic and abusive ex

  6. AkumuIsSleepy


    Acum 15 ore

    I just realized how many toxic people have in my life. o-o

  7. Robby S

    Robby S

    Acum 16 ore

    Well, this video aged like milk. It's almost 8 billion people on Earth in 2021. Jeez, get with the times, 2019 Jaiden.

  8. Sarah Zhao

    Sarah Zhao

    Acum 16 ore

    person: but they have really bad self-esteem- jaiden: you are NOT responsible for anyone's happiness person: but they're really depressed and can't help it- jaiden: NOT responsible for anyone's happiness me: _but i'm canadian._ jaiden: "N- ok, gray area."

  9. Quin Boesel

    Quin Boesel

    Acum 18 ore

    Someone tried to manipulate me. They kept putting themselves down and "dumping pollutants" so to speak. I cut them off and blocked them. They said they wanted to die because they had no friends and everyone left them. Toxic as shit, glad I got out of it

  10. Dennis Engelen

    Dennis Engelen

    Acum 18 ore

    Why do people feel so easily offended about every.single.thing? I mean, people seem to have problems communicating because they go full on SS3 Vegito angry mode on you instead of trying to solve the problem in a civil way through polite communication. It's like when there's fire, everyone goes in line with big tons of oil to throw on it instead of trying to extinguish it.

  11. shu boo

    shu boo

    Acum 20 ore

    wow all the red flags my ex had were described in this video lol

  12. KenTheKhan


    Acum 21 oră

    Toga at 7:22

  13. Inuzo999


    Acum o Zi

    I personally am fully aware that I manipulate and trick those who have wronged me and others into believing that we're still friends but in reality I hate them and will kill them all its just more fun to give them self worth and take it away with their lives I'm a sick person when it comes to sinners but a nice gentle and kind person to saints

  14. LEE YEAN XIN Moe


    Acum o Zi

    "Haha, I'm gonna be super manipulative today" (The person is Toga) Me: Fair Euf

  15. Eva Gibson

    Eva Gibson

    Acum o Zi

    7:21 is that toga

  16. James R

    James R

    Acum o Zi

    Bravo :)

  17. obadidada


    Acum o Zi

    *hey man i need to kick you off the universe*

  18. Ond Er

    Ond Er

    Acum o Zi

    Question what if that manipulative person would actualy hurt you if you stop there relation ship cuz ya seen em do it

  19. Margret Eslin

    Margret Eslin

    Acum o Zi

    7:22 is that toga??

  20. Savannah Hayes

    Savannah Hayes

    Acum o Zi

    Thank you this will really help me ☺️

  21. Dunstan1 v

    Dunstan1 v

    Acum o Zi

    The things you need to know but nobody tells you

  22. MoneyMo


    Acum o Zi

    This applies to friendships as well. Toxic people are the same no matter what kind of relationship they're involved in. And they target the same kinds of victims too. They're sore losers and control freaks who only want to win against naive people who have no idea a game is being played.

  23. Maxferno


    Acum o Zi

    I dont undertand what should i do when someone says to me about suicide

  24. Quarti


    Acum o Zi

    I have gone through something like that, because I’m not going to say their name but. Just recently one of my friends started to become a bit odd, and they would always come to me with it I would help them with things but when it came to my feelings they didn’t care one bit. So one day I wanted to vent and they just said the didn’t care, and I thought this time would be different from the other times i gave them a chance but they didn’t change.

  25. Alexander Vlk

    Alexander Vlk

    Acum 2 Zile

    But we are all an ecosystem together, not floating around as individuals alone but as individuals together.

  26. Snöiller


    Acum 2 Zile

    If I were offered A Drug and it turned out it was Satan himself and not Just Some Guy, I'd probably take it tbh and then ask him to take me with him when he leaves this is a joke about liking satan not liking drugs dont crucify me plz

  27. rtarrant85


    Acum 2 Zile

    u are a thapis

  28. manasvini rajan

    manasvini rajan

    Acum 2 Zile

    6:26 okay this is lowkey such a great version of you can we just APPRECIATE THIS ART LIKE AHh

  29. Love ER

    Love ER

    Acum 2 Zile


  30. Lemon Cat 🍋😺

    Lemon Cat 🍋😺

    Acum 2 Zile

    I saw toga

  31. z Taku

    z Taku

    Acum 2 Zile

    now i have domics and jaiden warning me for red flags i love you guys so much

  32. AbbiAbb422


    Acum 2 Zile

    i answered yes to 6 of those questions

  33. quinn seib

    quinn seib

    Acum 2 Zile

    It’s funny how I remembered this video and I was in an emotionally blackmail relationship

  34. Charlotte Starlight

    Charlotte Starlight

    Acum 3 Zile

    7:22 Himiko Toga! My crazy and creepy friend!

  35. Weapon Theorist

    Weapon Theorist

    Acum 3 Zile

    I know this is 2 years late and there are over 100k comments, been close friends with this one person for several years now, and he was accurately doing 6:20, Finally got him out of my life today and this video helped me out, especially on 7:33, when I felt like I did something horrible. Jaiden, if you ever read this again. Thank you for all that you do, you help out so many people that go and went through toxic relationships and we really appreciate all you do.

  36. •Gabby•Animations•


    Acum 3 Zile

    I bet 69 dollars that Jayden has an iPhone and not an Android

  37. Fiiuslair


    Acum 3 Zile

    The animation and character designs in this video are so good??

  38. ♡ 𝑹 𝑶𝑺 𝑬 ♡

    ♡ 𝑹 𝑶𝑺 𝑬 ♡

    Acum 3 Zile

    Your video is so good and your so kind🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  39. Sam Nguyen cuộc sống Úc

    Sam Nguyen cuộc sống Úc

    Acum 3 Zile

    I could if sworn I saw toga-

  40. Lazyseawing studios

    Lazyseawing studios

    Acum 3 Zile

    This video has help a lot thank you!

  41. Lazyseawing studios

    Lazyseawing studios

    Acum 3 Zile

    It’s kinda impossible to break off my relationship because I’ve known them for seven years,we go to the same school, our moms know each other,she knows where I live,she has my phone number and she has anxiety so she can easily make me look like the villain,can anyone please try to help me? It would mean a lot,she’s said some rude stuff as well as getting mad at me and calling me childish for liking things that she doesn’ do I do this please help

  42. Lazyseawing studios

    Lazyseawing studios

    Acum 3 Zile

    This has happened to me before. I am still in the relationship,I’ve known the person for seven years so it’s had time to build up.they nitpick things about me and say mean thing but sHe HaS aN eXuSe, she has anxiety and that why I am afraid to tell my mother to tell hers, do you guys have any advice?

  43. PooTime


    Acum 3 Zile

    Relationships are a social construct created by beta cuc** as a form of control Like racism and my hatred toward woman

  44. Masayu Nayla Shakufa

    Masayu Nayla Shakufa

    Acum 3 Zile


  45. Oscar Cabrera

    Oscar Cabrera

    Acum 3 Zile

    I don't agree with most of the things said here. But I do respect your opinion and I think you did a great job explaining your point of view. Congrats!

  46. Ethan DuBois

    Ethan DuBois

    Acum 3 Zile

    Well my school's the opposite and more stressful. I found a girl I like but my teachers and work still scare me a little. There fore I kinda do what I want. I a more responsible manner

  47. Kawaii Leonard

    Kawaii Leonard

    Acum 3 Zile

    Now draw her crying with her tongue out

  48. Bilal k

    Bilal k

    Acum 3 Zile

    The questions answers was yes all of them...

  49. Full Metal Theorist

    Full Metal Theorist

    Acum 4 Zile

    Practice positive self talk Kanye : *I am a God* OK not that positive.

  50. Matthew Brady

    Matthew Brady

    Acum 4 Zile

    Did anyone realize is there a murder people like in the new movie Luca before the movie came out did they get it from this video just something to think about

  51. an ordinary guy

    an ordinary guy

    Acum 4 Zile

    8:15 Uhh, I think something is wrong with the mirror

  52. Yaniv Rubin

    Yaniv Rubin

    Acum 4 Zile

    "Practice positive self talk" *"I am a GOD"* "Ok not *that* positive"

  53. Rubberbando


    Acum 4 Zile

    Who tf's phone breaks like that tho-

  54. Xx_Madden_Xx


    Acum 4 Zile

    this helps with my choices back then thanks jaiden. :)

  55. soldier660


    Acum 4 Zile

    you are right, but you still should do or at least try to help other people you care about it, even if you fail you tried, Cant blame yourself for that, still this is video is not perfect, is more complex than that. 1 kind of million relationships out there. At least this video gives few basics, you have every right to disagree with, everything is not perfect.

  56. Rena B1rb7s

    Rena B1rb7s

    Acum 4 Zile

    I came here again for an answer to how show support to someone who is starting a distance relationship, but knowing that sometimes you just have to say goodbye to some people in your life is also well received

  57. Sumon Ovee

    Sumon Ovee

    Acum 4 Zile


  58. Wierdo Hehe

    Wierdo Hehe

    Acum 4 Zile

    Wow this video is super helpful. Only thing i would add is if u both are growing its best to stick around until it gets too toxic. As long as comms is super plentiful should be fine many relationships worked out that way before.

  59. Obi wan kenobi

    Obi wan kenobi

    Acum 4 Zile

    i think i was in a toxic friendship, he was kinda passive aggressive and made me do stuff that.. eh wasn’t normal.. uh because of him i wore sweaters in my sleep, i deleted battlefront 2, and i realized that and immediately told him we shouldn’t be friends and left. most of the things check out so uh i guess that was a good thing?

  60. Clumsily Cotton

    Clumsily Cotton

    Acum 4 Zile

    I tend to have low self esteem, so whenever I make the comments saying “I'm useless” “Why are you even friends with me?” I try to avoid opening up and saying that because I don’t want them to feel like I’m doing that intentionally and trying to manipulate them. Although on the other hand, I’ve gotten manipulated more than enough times. Plus you’re right, someone shouldn’t be responsible for how someone else is feeling. They shouldn’t have to carry their burdens and be stressed out about how they’re feeling. They need to figure it out themselves and try to help themselves, you can’t just add more trash in someone else’s trash can. You add that in your own.

  61. TennieDeepnight


    Acum 4 Zile

    Hey. So... I had this 'friend' She stole from me, lied to me, bullied me, the list goes on. But a weird thing was, at one point, she told me: 'Hey Tennie, I don't want to be friends with you anymore.' That's something you should NEVER tell a person EVEREVEREVEREVEREVEREVEREVER. You know she should've said? 'Tennie, I'm sorry if this offends you, but you are doing XYZ, and it really hurts my feelings. Or, it really upsets me.' Don't straight up tell someone you don't want to be friends with them. First, explain that they are doing something that's hurting you. But if they are manipulating you, abusing you, TELL THE POLICE OR A HELP HOTLINE!!! PS: for the people who are gonna ask, I said to her 'W-w-why?' AND SHE SAID 'oh. well. like, you know how sometimes you'll like say like, 'Oh my gosh, I'm such a theater kid or nerd' right? Well I mean though like I'm like that too so like, yeah.'

  62. Dom Rio

    Dom Rio

    Acum 4 Zile

    "I am a god" not that positive.

  63. Patty Lasso

    Patty Lasso

    Acum 4 Zile

    "Hey kid, wanna do a drug?"

  64. Katsukis right toe

    Katsukis right toe

    Acum 4 Zile

    Why is no one talking abt toga ? 😃

  65. Jacksepicy ,

    Jacksepicy ,

    Acum 4 Zile

    My brother has everything on the bad list

  66. rockin_rosco gaming

    rockin_rosco gaming

    Acum 4 Zile

    I love how sally and chad are 80s style

  67. eric Dudley

    eric Dudley

    Acum 4 Zile

    My dad is toxic he's pregadist I'm bi all my friends and family say I'm a perfect friend or sibling or cousin or whatever he doesn't very nice and I support everybody I do everybody a true family member / friend does

  68. Rinerade


    Acum 4 Zile

    im sorry but the subtitles are hilarious and i just wanna know who did them

  69. Marissa


    Acum 4 Zile

    *I am a god*

  70. Hisashine Silas

    Hisashine Silas

    Acum 4 Zile

    Did anyone else see her using toga?😂

  71. HeyItsFlame


    Acum 5 Zile

    “Relationships are just little sprinkle of fertilizer benefit “ Jaiden 2019

  72. Birb


    Acum 5 Zile

    I have a bird

  73. Teresa Heitkamp

    Teresa Heitkamp

    Acum 5 Zile

    I'm get sad and lonely but i make sure people don't worry or take me under their wing and I know i can handle it by my self (and my mom)

  74. Acum 5 Zile


  75. Jubbano


    Acum 5 Zile

    You described this SO WELL especially since I wasn’t fully informed about all of it. But now I do. And so do others. You put this in words that is hard to explain. And I respect that.

  76. Jubbano


    Acum 5 Zile

    I can’t get over how amazing and smooth the animation is URGH 😩💖🤌🏼✨



    Acum 5 Zile

    u r literally my therapist lol

  78. Alice Elizabeth Smith

    Alice Elizabeth Smith

    Acum 5 Zile


  79. The Animation Space

    The Animation Space

    Acum 5 Zile

    i have a had a surprisingly good intuition when it comes to bad people when my gut says I shouldn't trust someone Ive never been wrong

  80. 25th Narrator

    25th Narrator

    Acum 5 Zile

    Jaiden is the best I love em

  81. Rainbow Stuffies

    Rainbow Stuffies

    Acum 5 Zile

    Thanks but NO one is interested in me

  82. Charles Barousse

    Charles Barousse

    Acum 5 Zile

    My grandpa is coronavirus

  83. Twilight76YT


    Acum 5 Zile

    Jaiden: “NOT your responsibility!” Parents: “well yes, but actually no”

  84. Mustafa Alshawi

    Mustafa Alshawi

    Acum 5 Zile

    Bruh this is too much my brain cant handle this shit amma watch some weird shark videos and sleep GN

  85. toby


    Acum 5 Zile

    comfort video? yah

  86. Valeria Guzman

    Valeria Guzman

    Acum 6 Zile

    Wait she put toga in 😭😭❤️

  87. Amogus Sus

    Amogus Sus

    Acum 6 Zile

    2:19 his face is too punchable

  88. Anya Cummings

    Anya Cummings

    Acum 6 Zile

    7:21 toga!?!!!????!?!

  89. Acum 6 Zile


  90. chetan chaudhari

    chetan chaudhari

    Acum 6 Zile


  91. Typical Gamers

    Typical Gamers

    Acum 6 Zile


  92. The Guy

    The Guy

    Acum 6 Zile

    Thank you for the video very informative!

  93. St1ll _

    St1ll _

    Acum 6 Zile

    i like how you puk toga in this

  94. XanderX


    Acum 6 Zile

    This is like school, but better

  95. Ramanathan Ramanathan

    Ramanathan Ramanathan

    Acum 6 Zile

    this is my entire pe theory class in one video

  96. Ruki_Mations


    Acum 6 Zile

    7:22 of this vid And somewhere on "My trip to Japan vid" Had my hero academia easter eggs This vid had Toga Himiko a villain from Mha And the other vid had Shigaraki and Dabi when she was pointing out lines like "He wasn't taken by the Japanese Mafia" I think these two vids were posted on the same year Meaning Jaiden actually does watch anime, alongside pokemon she watched my hero academia

  97. Adagio Medis

    Adagio Medis

    Acum 6 Zile

    I just got this video recommended to me and honestly it helped me realize that I'm kind of in a toxic relationship at the moment and have been a little toxic myself. Time to do some self reflecting to try to make myself better and hope that my partner does the same when I tell him my concerns. Thanks for the revelation ^~^

  98. Ralph scrivner

    Ralph scrivner

    Acum 6 Zile

    Did any alse see toga

  99. Babatunde Olajide

    Babatunde Olajide

    Acum 6 Zile

    Jaiden animations has predicted the release of Luca 6:25

  100. FOXtech25


    Acum 6 Zile

    Hey Jaiden I saw this video a while back maybe January/February-ish and I wanted to thank you alot because this actually really helped me with the relationship I was in and all the red flags stuff I never noticed but this helped me alot it was the hardest break up I've ever been through because she manipulated my friends, that I tried so hard for her to meet and get to know, against me but it's over now and I feel alot better so I just wanted to thank you so much